In my opinion, every responsible adult is entitled to some sort of sex life. With every couple, each of the partners has two sexual concerns: they enjoy performing certain sexual acts, and they enjoy certain sexual acts being performed on them. If one of the partners enjoys performing what the other partner enjoys receiving, their sexual needs are likely to be compatible. In this case it would probably result in a satisfying sex life for both partners. However, if one of the partners (either one) does not particularly enjoy performing what type of sexual stimulation the other partner enjoys receiving, then the likelihood of the partners becoming sexually frustrated increases due to not having their sexual needs met. This can go both ways. 

What should a couple do in this type of scenario? The magic word here is compromise. The manner in which the couple negotiates and cooperates with each other is up to them. Since every couple’s situation is unique, there is no fast and easy solution to this type of problem. Most aspects of a relationship require some sort of compromise and effort, and sex lives are no exception.